
Below you’ll find a curated list of readings, films, and other resources that I found intriguing and useful for my writing, research, and advocacy.
Organizations
Suggested Readings & Films By Theme (although there’s a lot of crossover!):
Illness / The Body / Facing Death
- The Undying, Anne Boyers
- Modern Nature, Derek Jarman
- In Gratitude, Jenny Diski
- Two Kinds of Decay, Sarah Manguso
- Gratitude, Oliver Sacks
- The Faraway Nearby, Rebecca Solnit
- I am I am I am, Maggie O’Farrell
- Smile or Die: How Positive Thinking Fooled America and the World, Barbara Ehrenreich
- On Death and Dying: What the dying have to teach doctors, nurses, clergy, and their own families – Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
- Stories from the Shadows, Dr. James O’Connell
Grief
- Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place, Terry Tempest Williams
- Notes on Grief, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
- Don’t Let Me Be Lonely, Claudia Rankine
- The Faraway Nearby, Rebecca Solnit
- Grief is the Thing With Feathers, Max Porter
- Death’s Door, Sandra Gilbert
- Say Something Back, Denise Riley
- Lincoln in the Bardo, George Saunders
- microbursts, Elizabeth Reeder & Amanda Thomson
- Heaven’s Coast, Mark Doty
- Nox, Anne Carson
- Grief is the Thing with Feathers, Max Porter
- ‘Kinds of Water’ (from Plainwater, with intro), Anne Carson
Palliative / Hospice / How Some Write/Think about Death
- Twelve Breaths a Minute – edited by Lee Gutkind
- Being Mortal, Atul Guwande
- We All Know How this Ends, Anna Lyons & Louise Winter
- With the End in Mind, Kathryn Mannix
- The Fall of Freddie the Leaf, Leo Buscaglia
- Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Questions from the Crematory, Caitlin Doughty
- Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs? Big Questions from Tiny Mortals About Death, Caitlin Doughty
Collective Experiences and Disparity
- In The Wake by Christina Sharpe
- Lose Your Mother by Saidiya Hartman
- The Mushroom at the end of the World by Anna Lowenhaut Tsing
- How to Survive the Anthropocene
- No Fixed Abode: Life and Death Among the UK’s Forgotten Homeless – Maeve McClenaghan
- Craft of Dying by Lyn Lofland
- The American Way of Death by Jessica Mitford
- On Death & Dying: What the Dying Have to Teach Doctors, Nurses, Clergy and Their Own Family by Elisabeth Kubler Ross
Essays
- “Mississippi: A Poem in Days “| Kiese Makeba Laymon
- “On Witness and Respair: A Personal Tragedy Followed by Pandemic” | Jesmyn Ward | https://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2020/08/jesmyn-ward-on-husbands-death-and-grief-during-covid
- “After My Son’s Suicide, I’m Learning to Navigate Emotional Minefields in My Home” | Rachel Dickinson:
- “Indigent Disposition” | Christopher Notarnicola
Film
- Prison Terminal: The Last Days of Private Jack Hall | Directed by Edgar Barens
- Serving Life | Directed by Lisa Cohen
- A Certain Kind of Death | Directed by Grover Babcock & Blue Hadeagh
- Extremis |Netflix
- End Game | Netflix
Podcasts
- Listen to Podcast: Hidden Brain: “We’re All Gonna Die” and “We’re All Gonna Live Forever” episodes.
- Death, Sex and Money – Anna Sales’ podcast with various episodes which discuss death
- The Bitter End, Radio Lab
On Writing
- Reading Like a Writer, Francine Prose
- The Art of the Personal Essay ed Phillip Lopate
- The Writing Life, Annie Dillard
- The Autobiography of Fiction, Micaela Maftei